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About depression

About half of the world's population must have suffered at some stage of their life from depression, but this condition remains poorly understood and interpreted, so it is often mishandled. The common difficulty about understanding depression is confusion and confusion about what it is in reality, especially how to distinguish Between this pathological condition that we know and the broad similarities between it and grief, because we tend spontaneously to make a number of illustrated assumptions for cases of lymphadenitis that better fit the concept of grief that when we end up suffering from it more than we should.
Outwardly and prominently, there are some similarities between sad people and depression: both groups cry out, both also in a state of regression and withdrawal from the surrounding world, as well as complaints about laziness, apathy, and a sense of isolation from their normal lives, but there is one difference between sadness and depression, which is that the sad person Know the cause of his sadness while not depressed.
Without any complications, a sad person can express his grief and tell about what bothers him to others, for example, I am sad because of the death of my grandmother, that I lost my job, or that my friends do not treat me well, so this seems strange to the depressed person, which is the inability to express. In the event of severe degeneration, but he cannot definitively conclude the reason that depleted the meaning of life for him, he could simply say that life itself has no meaning. It is not depression about x or y as one can be sad about x or y. They mainly suffer from a depression.
In concrete terms, we find the inability of the depressed person to calculate his temperament that he can put open to accusations and judgments that are exaggerated and false and unjustifiable, close friends begin with all good intentions to exaggerate in the search for solutions to soluble problems that could end in frustration due to the inability to achieve Advance with improved condition. Depressed person can relate to strange, unimportant and dangerous thoughts due to their medical condition.
It is possible to complain or start pessimism, for example, that there is no point in going to work, because the earth will melt by the sun after 7.5 million years, or insist that life lacks all the meanings because they only throw a glass of water on the ground and everything becomes a form Full hopeless.
At this stage, one can hear what can be said, if the depressive condition does not have any reasonable psychological reasons, then the problem must be binding and associated with some kind of imbalance in the chemistry of the brain, so it seems to be better and more effective to use drugs for treatment. The idea of ​​a large appeal is primarily due to the pharmaceutical industry, but also due to the concern of families, schools and employers who are eager to find effective and urgent solutions to treat the disease in terms of cost.
But there is also another approach to the condition of depression, although it appears slower and more difficult, but it is highly effective in the long run.
This idea arose through the vision derived from psychotherapy. It can be said that the rules of discipline and restraint made it better to absorb depression than anything else.
The basic limits of psychological treatment are that the depressed person is a person who is not depressed as suggested (without the presence of reasons), there must be a reason for that, they are subject to a specific cause and thing, but this thing has proven to be extremely difficult to take responsibility for, and for that reason the depression has become intercalated In an external scope and domain of awareness and perception which led to the destruction and devastation of the psyche and urging an infinite sense of nihilism.
For patients with depression, the realization of the causes of sadness seems very frustrating, so they subconsciously prefer to remain dead for everything other than all that disturbs a certain thing.
Depression is a sadness that has forgotten its true causes, forgotten because trying to remember again can generate sweeping feelings of loss and pain.
 So what are the real reasons that cause this phenomenon, perhaps marriage to the wrong person, or that sexual life is not what the person envisioned to be, or anger at one of the parents for their lack of care in childhood. In order to keep his peace of mind, one chooses what seems more assertive and his will than it is in reality, to be depressed rather than to have complete awareness. So he chooses to lose his constant sense of protection as a shocking vision.
However, things seem more difficult, the depressed person does not feel aware and aware that he lacks insight and acumen, he is not aware of the existence of a gap in self-understanding. In addition, in the present day, people who are depressed often assume that they are depressed as a form of physical illness. The opinion or judgment that is most sought and appealed by the pharmaceutical industries is just as it is for the people closest to the sick person with the benefit of foresight that remains buried (i.e. the opinions of relatives remain marginal compared to the drugs).
 There is another major difference that we notice between sadness and depression. A sad person is sad when he suffers a catastrophe about a specific issue that occurred and it is not necessary that the sadness touches the individual personality. With guilt and shame, with a lot of self-loathing, you can make it end to the extreme of thinking about suicide, and the end will be very tragic.

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