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Of course, the message has long been evident in our minds, the difficulty is not finding the right words but rather clamping down with the concept that a person has the right to say it, but it is of course not for us but rather very important for them.

An example of how to run an ideal conversation (conceptual):

(I know this is a bad time, but there may not be a good and good time to say what I intend to say)

We must wait for the appropriate time to speak, for example, after a job stability, after a birthday, the beginning of the holiday or when they feel unhappy and annoyed by us. But in reality we have to choose the date, because we cannot find a suitable and specific time to end the relationship, as this matter will terribly hurt the feelings of the partner at any time, such as the release of a holiday in Thailand or a brother's birthday. Under the name of the sustainability of great freedom.

(The relationship simply no longer works for me)

It is cruel not to throw a shock, but by continuing in a relationship, one stops believing in it, as soon as one feels a change in feelings, it is his duty to move away from them in order to make a new start in their lives.

(There can be a lot to say, but I have no point in saying, with the nicest way he can say, wherever we analyze this matter, it must.)

Obviously, you start by mentioning the reasons, perhaps the partner himself

He intends the conversation to take the direction of counseling and advice, in the hope that he will be able to dig out your logic in the matter, or maybe he wants to reverse the conclusions I reached

But your risk of doing so may end in a minor conflict and dissonance in front of a stage of long suffering from friction or an attempt to request miserable sympathy, so that one is more open than he wished

If they had only the ability to know and understand them properly and appropriately, there would have been no thought of ending the relationship from the beginning.

I have thought a lot and made a rational decision on this matter, and I know in his decision myself that this is the right decision

The enemy is hope

The feeling that you can be blamed for is a change in opinion and feeling, being a polite person does not mean that you look gentle, for the sake of this risk you are an delusional person and a mistake with the old love that is still considered this love within their reach and available to them recently,

There will be a lot of people next to the partner for support and backstopping during this time. Your job is not to be a wonderful and joyful person, but your attempt to be a fast-forgotten person is as fast as possible.

The essence of the talk is for them to be a villain and a petty person.

(Probably better not to be in touch this time)

The estrangement and workmanship praises a state of frigidity and a lack of feeling created by these conditions. The gift, for example, is a substance that can be considered something hated in the eyes of lovers, and for this reason it is easy for a person to overcome and throw it away. It is contemptible and forbearance that one accepts to be hated by the beloved.

In the end, a gentle and polite person should not make long and sensitive speeches, or make a warm cry for the moment he leaves the place, he must have enough courage to allow himself to be a hateful and abhorrent person by the one who hurt him with sorrow. So that the explanation for this position should be brief to the maximum extent.

(Not both of us are to blame, we both will be better if we separate rather than be in this relationship, we both deserve the best, and believe me after several years from now you will agree with me on the opinion).

Through this conversation it was revealed that the person is trying to be like a friend or shoulder to cry over. In this case it is considered the last option, especially for people who have not had any kind of mutual love between them

(The taxi is waiting for me outside, farewell)